As our parents start to age and when you live in another country there is such thing as caring for your parents how the Filipinos are custom to do when are parents to reach an aged that they are not capable staying home without any guidance. You realize and you begin to cry as Michelle saw in Jack's parents no one cared to take care of them when she left her son and moved to another house. Michelle had just realized when she didn't want to return back to Jack's neighborhood, she never thought about what his parents we're going through when she wasn't around. Michelle just realized how much Jack's parents we're neglected in the way no one took care of them the sense in cleaning their home.  Michelle had cleaned each day seeing the house they lived look like a house that was so unkempt with cobwebs in the ceiling. Michelle had a dream that in her dream she had parents living with her and she realize when you have parents who reach a certain ...

Michelle had belongings left behind in the home of Jack in order to get it she went with him to get it. Michelle had entered the home of Jack she had a feeling she didn’t want to enter a home that gave her memories that was too painful to open her broken heart. From that point she realize she was just in an illusion in her mind she wanted to return back with Jack because she was thinking of the good memories they had shared. In her heart she was broken apart as she entered the home she remember all the moments she had cried alone in the bathroom seating down not knowing what to solve her problems feeling she was left alone. Michelle realized something that phobia she had in her heart been something she couldn’t explain to anyone and she couldn’t figure it out why she had felt the way she did. As she grabbed all her personal belonging and rush out from the home with Jack he brought her to back to his mom’s home. Jack had prepared Michelle’s room since his parents are too ...

There are times when you come out in a relationship and you passed through a denial stage when you feel like you have moved on but you have this sort of feeling that is kept in back of your mind and in your heart hasn’t really fully gotten over with Jack. Every day when Jack calls you up you still have that feeling excitement in your heart and you begin to think about the memories you have shared and on and off you delete him from your social account and ask him to be your friend again as you encounter this unsolved feelings toward him you don’t know how you can fully release him out from your heart. In front of you there is Michael who has everything you wanted in a relationship but in your heart you have unsolved feelings for Jack and you’re not sure how can you fully focus your life back to him and fully move on. As you consult your friend through video call you find it hard to admit you have unsolved feelings for Jack as you say bad things about him but those words me...

Jack starts calling Michelle up wanting to go back with her and you tell him no. Jack asked, why. Michelle explains to Jack all the flaws she saw in him something she didn't see when she was so in love with him. Michelle pointed out she put all her efforts in her relationship to him and he didn't do anything about it and he kept repeating and making promises he couldn't keep. Michelle told him you look like a dirty man who hasn't taken a bath for years when I was with you I have change your appearance because I wanted you to look young and good looking. I made those changes I didn't know you would cheat behind my back and betrayal our relationship that you broke my heart not only once but twice in a row. All my family and friends asked me why I was so into you and what did I see from Jack. During that time I was so in love with you and my imagination was some where I couldn't be reached. I learned from my broken heart I cannot trust anymore an...

Conclusion: You are in a relationship and you are no longer around your ex it is already too late to patch what you had because you already had moved on You realize when someone is not there your life becomes incomplete and you become lonely. Your heart begins to break as you realize how much your ex had neglect you and has found a new love Your mood begins to change You become greedy and you keep calling your ex The pattern has transferred to your ex how you he broke up with you Highlight: You realize the new move is best for everyone You start figuring what new changes you want in your new relationship You have realize the person you had a relationship with your ex was a bad influence to you You start taking control of your life Once you have already accepted the new changes in your relationship you begin to realize something in your mind everything your friend was true but it just took you long enough with bad experiences to go through in order to op...

Michael had invited Michelle to sleep over at his home for the remaining three days she had left before she had returned to Jack’s home. Michelle and Michael had slept in separate rooms. Michael has been divorce for 12 years and has been living alone. His ex-wife lives one block away from him having one daughter living with his wife. Michelle was able to meet Michael’s daughter Nikki who is a teenager and his ex-wife Cindy. The last night when they are alone Michael and Michelle could no longer resist each other and they had their sex and they became boyfriend and girlfriend. Even though Michelle’s feelings we’re not fully transferred to Michael she felt different being with Michael he was the opposite from Jack someone she can put her heart fully to him. Michelle had to return to Jack's home the next day dropped off by Daniel. Jack was so excited to see Michelle and she didn't careless for him. Michelle did her regular routine as a live i...

Jack’s surprise is that he wanted to break off with Michelle and told her he is really confused he still has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, but he also loves Michelle. Jack wanted to be with Michelle but he also wanted to be with his ex-girlfriend so he was dating them at the same time. Jack was also still married to his wife Sally and never filed the divorce papers. Story goes Michelle’s revenge didn’t work as planned she ended up getting broken hearted not once but twice in a row. Michelle began being the bad girl she was smoking and drinking heavily because she felt that was the right thing to do. The job that Jack’s mom had promise never came up it was all lies and Michelle was so devastated and her world was falling all apart. Jack had informed Michelle there will be no man to love you because you are not beautiful. Jack was putting Michelle down because he wanted to hate her more and he said, it because he was also confused with his feelings. Miche...

Jack had called, up Michelle telling her he wanted them to go back with him and he already broken up with his ex-girlfriend. Michelle had this image in her head that she wanted to play revenge on Jack to pretend to go back with him because in her mind she wanted Jack to feel the kind of medicine he did to her and in order her to do that was to go back with him and give her another invitation to return back to his country. Michelle felt she had something to prove to herself and she wanted to keep that promise she made to Jack's family that she will come back no matter what it takes. Jack's mom had called, up Michelle telling her how she had missed her and even if she wasn't in a relationship with her son she still wanted her as a daughter. Jack's mom made some promise that she would have a job for her and her status would change once the company has seen her job performances and signed a contract with one another. Michelle kept away her plans from me...

In life when you reach to a point in your life you become drawn to a life that blinds you to reality and fantasy never play any attention to the person next to you because you have this imagine that is built in your head. This relationship can go beyond from a man or woman’s relationship and either way it affects the people around you. Steps to Move On: Set aside all photos of each other and place it in a box Set aside items you have received from your relationship Change your password in all social media, email and phone Remove him/her from your social media account including their family Transfer all your pictures on a flash drive or have it all deleted Stop posting negative stuff on social media to show your weakness to the anyone Remove all alcohol in your home  Keep yourself busy by working more hours Find a new hobby All these steps may be difficult for you in the beginning but this is to start something new and for you to be able to move forward ...

Michelle always told me her relationship problems with Jack while she was in Europe, and we spoke to each other every day for three months. I have seen her surrounding as we always had a video call. I was there when she was outside while Jack was working on the field for one month. I was the friend who had supported her when she had told me what she was going through but every time I gave Michelle advice she kept thinking I was being negative we always fought with each other with our difference of opinion. No matter if we always fought with each other, I still kept in touch with Michelle I felt she is so far away in another country anything can happen to her. I told her to look where the police department was so in case something happens to her with Jack she would know where to run too. I always told Michelle to always have money and her passport with her never give it to Jack this way when you need to go somewhere you have your identity with you. I told Michelle to c...

Michelle and Jack had a difficult adjusting with each other being separated since they both got attached living with one another. It was a time for them to get back in track of reality if their long distance relationship would work out for them. As months has passed and Michelle went back to work as she is a freelance physical therapist she had to find new clients since she was gone for three months she wasn't sure if she would have an employer to hire her again. Jack had called, up Michelle and informed her he couldn't handle the separation and he went back to his ex-girlfriend. Michelle was devastated with the news she came to the point she felt she was killing herself she had cried and kept crying as tears kept flowing down her face. Michelle stopped working due to her emotional breakdown. Michelle never in her life felt her heart was broken apart and she loved Jack so much that it took over to get over him. Michelle had no appetite to eat and s...

The third month of Michelle visitation in Europe she had discovered a big secret that was kept away from her as people around her we’re slipping the beans off the table. Michelle found out that Jack and his ex-wife Sally are not divorced and never filed their papers they just pretended to be. Jack not only had a wife and dated Michelle he also had another girlfriend he had recently rekindled his feelings with his ex-girlfriend in high school. Jack had fooled everyone as well his parents had no clue what Jack had planned all along in his head. Michelle has already deeply in love with Jack and still believes their love was strong enough even if Sally had a boyfriend so to her it seems they we’re separated from each other. Michelle and Sally got a long toward the end of their friendship. Michelle found out that when Sally was married to Jack he had fooled around during their marriage. Jack always loved stringing along other woman in his life so everyone was use t...

Michelle felt having boyfriend she is obligated to take care of him as a partner while she was living in with him. Buy him new clothes instead of wearing his old clothing he had in his closet. Buy him new shoes Clean his face Cut and clean his nails like a manicure Cut and color his hair Tell him to take his vitamin Cook healthy food Conclusion: In every relationship it is up to the person if he/she will allow themselves to be changed by their partner during their process as being a couple. In a relationship there is a give and a take process or a compromise if he/she will do it or not. Highlight: Some men like it when their girlfriend changes their new appearance because they feel that person really care how they look when they go out together. Some relationship will not last long if the guy doesn't agree with the new changes that his girlfriend wants from him it all depends on that person if they want to change their appearance. Some men are easy will go...

Michelle felt jealous when Jack had a close relationship with Jack’s ex-wife Sally because he still gives her child support and holds on to her money. This is Jack’s way to keep in touch with Sally when he can still visit her and their children living with their mother. Jack and Sally live two blocks close by each other it is easier for both of them when they need to help each other raise their children together but living separate houses. Michelle felt it was strange that Jack was very close to Sally even if she had a boyfriend living with her. There was an incident it was Jack’s birthday and Michelle wanted to cook for the occasion. Michelle had informed Jack what she was planning for their family gathering for Jack’s birthday. Michelle decided to cook some Filipino dishes that Jack loved to eat. Michelle wanted to buy a cake that both Jack and Michelle liked to eat. Jack had informed Michelle that Sally will be baking a cake for his birthday. Jack informed Miche...

Jack’s work is one hour away from his home. Michelle would prepare his breakfast and eat together before he left for work. Michelle would make him a cooked meal to bring to his work. While Jack was at work Michelle would clean his home do house chorus, laundry, fold his clothes and make sure he had a home cooked meal when he had arrived from work. Michelle's belief is when you have a relationship she is obligated to take care of her man to show how much she loves him in respect she hopes he would do the same in their relationship. Michelle took over his home just like having a future wife to come home too. Sometimes Jack will bring Michelle to the work site when he needs to be out of town he doesn’t want to leave her alone in his home. There have been several incidents Michelle had to stay inside Jack’s company car while he was on the field for eight hours: Jack didn’t provide any restroom or a place for Michelle to stay while he was off working and...