Chapter 14: Accepting New Changes

Conclusion:

• You are in a relationship and you are no longer around your ex it is already too late to patch what you had because you already had moved on
• You realize when someone is not there your life becomes incomplete and you become lonely.
• Your heart begins to break as you realize how much your ex had neglect you and has found a new love
• Your mood begins to change
• You become greedy and you keep calling your ex
• The pattern has transferred to your ex how you he broke up with you

Highlight:

• You realize the new move is best for everyone
• You start figuring what new changes you want in your new relationship
• You have realize the person you had a relationship with your ex was a bad influence to you
• You start taking control of your life

Once you have already accepted the new changes in your relationship you begin to realize something in your mind everything your friend was true but it just took you long enough with bad experiences to go through in order to open your eyes.

There are some people who are very slow learner and are stubborn to hear the real truth in every new relationship with or when they have returned to their ex.

Sometimes people dwelled in the past thinking what they had before the feelings will sort out and remain to be the same all over again.

I came back in the picture I decided to message Michelle because I had a dream of her and I wanted to patch up our difference.

My mom had told me there are friends who need you even if they are doing against what you feel is not right for them and if you are really her friend you need to be there and accept who she is.

I took my mom's advice I kept messaging Michelle and I didn't stop I even left voice message to her so she would hear me.

I wanted her to miss me too and I had called, her several times video call finally she had returned my call she was with Michael at first I was shocked. Michelle explained her situation with Jack I didn't want to tell her I told you so I was the friend she needed listen to what had gone with her.

We had patched our difference and I was able to talk to Michael and get to know him too as we spoke to each other every day video call.

Michael didn't mind Michelle talking to me every day while he was at work or when he was there he felt Michelle needed a support from her friend.

As I was talking to Michelle I had notice she was smoking and I was saying that it is bad for you and now we are going through COVID I was telling her you really need to stop and you have never smoked before why are you starting a new bad habit.

Michelle than influence Michael to do the same thing they both made an agreement they would stop after one week.

Michelle claimed she was smoking out of anger with Jack but I knew it was not a reasonable excuse to smoke in the first place.

Michelle and Michael loved to drink alcohol but being as a friend they have limit how much they drink.