Have you ever seen a decoration your parents kept, carrying it with them from another country or a previous marriage? Carmina realized that parents often hold onto items they've purchased in the past. While browsing Greenhill's shopping center, she stepped into  Mystic Gems by Bensani  and saw so many nostalgic items that reminded her of growing up.  I pointed out to Mom Violy that she had a similar crystal tree decoration at home. She said it was forty years old and already dirty. The saleslady explained it could be cleaned easily with soap and water. Carmina decided to take Mom Violy home and bring the crystal tree decoration with her. Mom Violy questioned why she was taking it, and I said I would clean it and return it.  I noticed Mom Violy had placed planting seeds inside the decoration, for reasons I didn’t understand. Before cleaning it, I checked online to see what was needed, knowing its value. I placed a towel underneath, prepared a plastic container with dishwas...
Michelle felt jealous when Jack had a close relationship
with Jack’s ex-wife Sally because he still gives her child support and holds on
to her money. This is Jack’s way to keep in touch with Sally when he can still
visit her and their children living with their mother.
The entire guest ate Sally’s cake and didn’t pay attention to the cake Michelle bought for Jack.
Conclusion:
Jack and Sally live two blocks close by each other it is
easier for both of them when they need to help each other raise their children
together but living separate houses.
Michelle felt it was strange that Jack was very close to Sally even if she had a boyfriend living with her.
There was an incident it was Jack’s birthday and Michelle
wanted to cook for the occasion. Michelle had informed Jack what she was
planning for their family gathering for Jack’s birthday.
Michelle decided to cook some Filipino dishes that Jack loved
to eat. Michelle wanted to buy a cake that both Jack and Michelle liked to eat.
Jack had informed Michelle that Sally will be baking a cake
for his birthday. Jack informed Michelle every time it is my birthday Sally
always baked a cake for me and my family likes her cakes that she makes.
Michelle got upset with Jack because Michelle had already
planned and order the cake they both liked to eat.
Jack told Michelle it is fine to have two cakes for my
birthday no need to complain.
Jack’s birthday came and all his family members had arrived
in their home. Michelle had served her Filipino dishes as she saw guest had
entered everyone who took a plate of her food just threw it in the trash can.
Michelle felt really bad thinking no one appreciate her hard
work in cooking and just threw her food out.
The entire guest ate Sally’s cake and didn’t pay attention to the cake Michelle bought for Jack.
Conclusion:
- Family members are use to the old tradition and when someone new becomes a part of their family they prefer to keep both parents together than having someone new in their home.
 - It takes time for a family member to accept a parent dating someone new other than their real parents.
 - Children are involved the ex-wife is a package deal when the new girl friend needs to deal the new changes.
 - The new person needs to accept the old tradition in the family that is broken up and need to be patient for those to new changes.
 
Highlight:
- If, your boyfriend love you enough he would protect you and he would make sure his family wouldn't mistreat you like an outsider.
 - When a man doesn't protect his new partner it only means he has lingering feelings for his ex-wife and he is hiding something behind your back.
 - If, he spends more time with his ex-wife and he brings you along that means he is using you in order for him to visit his ex-wife more often than he should.
 - If, he doesn't give his ex-wife responsibility for monthly dues there is something fishy who knows they might not even be divorce in what Jack said, he is.
 - When you are divorce all child support and alimony is settled through the process of their divorce.
 
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