Family, Marriage, Boyfriend, Girlfriend and Friendship

When something new comes along and you worked off a new friendship when that friendship vanish in thin air you start to begin to wonder what you have said to that person.

In every friendship is just like having a relationship you hold on to it just like you would hold on to your family, marriage, boyfriend and girlfriend.

What happens when one person who had become a part of your life vanish not even explaining yourself to you why they did what they did?

After watching a lot of videos about relationship to understand myself better because this has never happened to me before I had to understand that it wasn’t my fault to begin with it was the person who held something against me.

When we come across a person like this you realize one thing that all the friendship you still have is something greater than the friendship you have just lost those are the friends who stuck to you just like any relationship would have worked on.

I realize that I place myself to work on to something that wasn’t really meant to be and I learned maybe I was putting myself available to be always online for my friends.

I realize I need to make new changes because my old friends are starting to think I like giving out attention to my friends but then I realize I am not that person my friend is saying I never asked them to become my friend or was I ever the one who started the conversation.

Why the blame or the judgement does go to me when I shouldn’t be the one to feel guilty of something I have never done?

I decided to turn off my social media and see how it feels if I wasn’t online during the times they see me how would it feel if I became less active would they worry for me just like I did.

I wanted to let them taste that medicine when I was hurting and I couldn’t control my emotions of shock and discouragement I kept hearing over and over again from my other friends.

I realize my life is not moving forward it is just dwelling on something you had missed but you can’t seem to understand what is happening to yourself.

You become speechless and when you had watched the videos it says to keep yourself away from social media to ignore people and not make the first move let those people miss you.

There is a saying you are turning the table around to give them a piece of their medicine.

You need to believe it is not your fault that you lost your family, marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend or friendship it means they have move on without you something is wrong with that person give them the space they need to figure it out.

Or you really not meant to be in the first place, and they have found someone else so when someone comes in your life again you know what not to do be the opposite of what you had become give less information and give less attention this way these people will miss you more.

Always continue with your daily life and never put a hold on what plans you have made because this person who became a part of your life may decide to leave again no family, marriage, boyfriend, girlfriend and friendship are really forever someone is bound to let go of you.

Your life continues no matter who ends up leaving toward the end and you still remain the person who destroys you, but you have become a stronger person and more independent in your life and not changing it just for someone to hold on too.

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