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Laughter with Mom Violy, Carmina, Ruel, Neria and Marissa

Mom Violy wanted to get a haircut from Ruel from Hairliners Salon in Ali Mall. She was saying if they are not too busy wanted to get a pedicure.  Ruel had introduce Marissa to Mom Violy who can do her pedicure. Neria had approached me saying she has no client. I was able to get my facial done while Mom Violy was busy having her beauty treatments. Mom Violy had introduced me to Marissa saying they wanted to add each other in Facebook. They had no clue how to do it. Both Mom Violy and Marissa handed their phone to me.  Ruel had informed Marissa that I am doing Poppo Live.  Marissa asked for some pointers how to use the Poppo Live application on her phone. I taught her the basics found out she is in an agency.  I don't understand why her agency is not giving her tips how to use Poppo Live.  Ruel had informed me he would also like to join Poppo Live just been so busy from his work. I told everyone to gather and take pictures together since we've haven't seen each other for a lo

LDR (Long Distance Relationship)

What happens when you just start a long distance relationship? Being in a long distance relationship is really difficult. In two worlds you don't know what they are doing.

In all relationship trust is apart of your commitment with one another. If, you cannot trust a person your mind will start playing mind games on you. You will lack sleep and appetite. You become reckless and your mind starts to drift to the unknown world of what if.

You won't be able to solve all those what if in your brain until you ask the person who your with those questions that keeps floating in your brain.

How does someone cope with the insecurity feelings that comes in their mind? You start thinking is this person even worth it or is your relationship worth to hold on?

I was telling my friend you are testing the water if your relationship is worth it or not. I think love is like when you gamble. You need to hold on to your cards or decide when you will withdraw one card at a time.

Love is like playing a game of Poker.

Sometimes the truth hurts when you hear it. But, that is life. Life is a gamble. You win some and you loose some.

When you do loose you tend to loose that trust. You tend not to trust any one who comes into your life. 

When you win you gain something greater.

All relationship is all different it is just based on how well you can control your feelings. 

Remember love is blind. No one will admit when they are deeply in love they are hard to be pulled away. It will take time to stand up again and move on with being in love with someone and feeling out of love.

No matter how we hear advices from someone and our heart is not ready to let go. That is the hard part when you have fallen deep in love. All doors are closed. You are not ready to open your door because you are fearing your heart will be in pain when he/she is not apart of your life.

The only first thing to ask yourself is he/she worth it. Can you live without him/her?  You are the only one who will know whether what you want to be in.

I was telling my friend she need to figure and ask those questions. I told her she need to get to know him more before you can say he is the one.

Love is a gamble. You need to control it with my brain not your heart. Sometime you can not do it even if it means you are doing something wrong.

The only support you can give your friend is be there for them what ever they choose to do.


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