Do you have friends who envy you too much?

Do you have friends who envy you too much?

The reason why I am asking if you have friends who envy you too much as I was growing up and even now I have friends comparing the way I live based on how they live sometimes I cannot understand why people need to compare you the difference as I live in the Philippines and they live in the States life is more independent in California not where I live we sometimes need to ask other people to do some chorus for us because we are not allowed to do it in our condition.

You are living a life where you are fully lockdown and you are not allowed to go out your life becomes what they call the Princess life where they feel you have more for them or sometimes you hear calling you a spoil brat.

To me I don't think I am handed down with a silver spoon or do I see myself as a spoiled bratt. You can read my stories I have written in my previous blogs on how I grew up it is all there but to categorize you being different from them is mind blowing.

I have known a lot of friends who always told stories at my face and always told me I am so different from them because I have more than them.

To me I see myself equal where we are both hard working and we need to earn to get where we are the way I live maybe different from other people but my life is kind of just like your life just I live in the Philippines where we have helpers people working for us.

I also have friends when they found out I am a blogger they feel I am richer than they are but in real life we don't earn so much money you need to work hard to get where you are it is just like when you start off a new position at your work we start from the bottom to reach the standard level we want to achieve the position we want from a company we are working for and doing a blog is the same way we have to work harder each day to achieve the audience so they don't get bored or un follow you either way it is not handed on to you.

You have friends judging you I end up losing interest in them and want to drop them off the curb and say good bye no matter what if you envy me the way I am you can change your life just need to find what inspire you to do something but you don't need to blame me for the life you have and expect me to always give in to make you feel much better how life goes we can turn our life around if we wanted too but it doesn't come easy we need to start from the bottom to reach the next level as I have been doing my personal blog I have learned a lot on my own having it only it for 10 months and being lockdown I have learned on my own what to do and how to grab people to read my post.

My friend asked me what is my secret well sorry cannot share it because it is something I have learned on my own and you too need to figure it out if you want to start your own personal blog.

Life is not handed you to make life easy we all need to work for what we want our goals to reach to the next level or the next work position in our life.