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When Mom Violy spotted Crisostomo’s handwritten menu, something in her chest lit up: home-style lumpia, sinigang steaming in clay pots—could this be the comfort food she’d been missing?

Carmina informed Mom Violy that she would visit her home on Saturday, November 8, 2025. She asked if Mom Violy wanted to go out for lunch and mentioned needing to do some grocery shopping due to an upcoming big storm. Mom Violy suggested trying Crisostomo, a Filipino restaurant inside Robinsons Magnolia. Carmina forwarded the menu for her to choose what she wanted to eat, while Carmina already knew her order. I chose pork barbeque served in a set of three pieces with a vinegar dipping sauce. I skipped rice and opted for lumpiang hubad, fresh lumpia without a wrapper, topped with peanut sauce.  Mom Violy initially craved the classic Pinoy paella, but when it wasn’t available, she decided on sinigang na baboy with an extra serving of rice. A family member chose sisig with garlic rice. Carmina enjoyed her meal with Mom Violy and particularly liked the  lumpiang hubad , though she kept wondering why it had no wrapper. I explained that it’s called "naked" because it’s served witho...

What is the Limit Being Nice?


We come across people who are too nice when it comes in family, friendship, relationship or at work environment and it comes across when you’re too nice people tend to take advantage of you when you don’t limit yourself.

Being nice comes in factors where you are the following:
  1. Taken Advantage
  2. Taken for Granted to all your have done for someone

Sometimes we need to limit ourselves being too nice because when you give all you have for someone in any matter from family, friendship, relationship and work it all comes to one you don’t get recognized yourself and you become to have a more complicated life than others and it over laps with each other where you can no longer recognize your mistakes.

I am sure everyone has come across their life being too nice because we’re told by our parents. But, what they haven’t informed us there is a limit how nice a person can be in every life we have a limit to be nice or to be mean to any situation.

We cannot always say yes to everything someone asks from you we have limits to say no.

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