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Laughter with Mom Violy, Carmina, Ruel, Neria and Marissa

Mom Violy wanted to get a haircut from Ruel from Hairliners Salon in Ali Mall. She was saying if they are not too busy wanted to get a pedicure.  Ruel had introduce Marissa to Mom Violy who can do her pedicure. Neria had approached me saying she has no client. I was able to get my facial done while Mom Violy was busy having her beauty treatments. Mom Violy had introduced me to Marissa saying they wanted to add each other in Facebook. They had no clue how to do it. Both Mom Violy and Marissa handed their phone to me.  Ruel had informed Marissa that I am doing Poppo Live.  Marissa asked for some pointers how to use the Poppo Live application on her phone. I taught her the basics found out she is in an agency.  I don't understand why her agency is not giving her tips how to use Poppo Live.  Ruel had informed me he would also like to join Poppo Live just been so busy from his work. I told everyone to gather and take pictures together since we've haven't seen each other for a lo

Dealing with Early Dementia

 



Today someone in the house wasn’t happy how her Christmas tree was decorated next I know there was no more decorations it was placed in a plastic bag.

What happens when the person who had decorated the Christmas tree doesn’t remember she was the one who did it the second time around?

We have a family member who is under going through early dementia no matter if you tell her she was the one who decorated the Christmas tree she will not remember.


The family member wanted it to have fewer decorations on her Christmas tree and didn't like what color ornaments was on her tree.

The Christmas tree that Gina had decorated beforehand felt there we're too many things going on with the tree with big ribbons. The family member thought it was too busy and distracting the way she had looked at the tree.



From the moment on a person begin to age every year the memory gets worse and once the person stress themselves from their environment for a person who has been a perfectionist has always been a difficult time dealing with them.

Even when she wasn’t going through early dementia what happens when the environment she is not in she feels she wants to find a flaw in what anyone does around them.

All I can say it takes patience to be around those kind of people who knows one day we will reach that point in our life as we get old like them.

People with early dementia doesn’t mean to cruel to you or try to give people a hard time they are also reaching a peak moment of adjusting themselves to the life that is encountering to some people it takes a lot of admitting they are like this with personality changing.

No matter what let them win and guide them during the process of early dementia.

I had volunteered my two hours to decorate the Christmas tree as much as possible I tried to balance it out on whatever decorations we had. I had used my Christmas decorations that I brought along with me from California and combine the other ones that was available to contrast the color combination.


My snow man top tree is missing cannot be found went ahead and ordered one online with a skirt to be placed on the bottom of the Christmas tree finally it can be complete with Christmas gifts underneath.

Hopefully we can stop decorating our Christmas tree before it reach Christmas Day until now enjoy our tree how it is right now in our home.





 


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