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Mom Violy and Carmina’s dining experience at Dean & DeLuca

  Mom Violy told me she wanted to order the Paella Negra from Dean & Deluca. Carmina suggested we dine in since we’d never really tried their main courses, always just getting takeout with the cream puffs . Mom Violy agreed, and we arrived about thirty minutes before the lunch rush began. The service was very slow, even though we had ordered ahead of time. They mistakenly brought out the Paella Valenciana , despite Mom Violy repeating the order three times to the person who took it. It turned out the cook on duty made the error, even though it was written down clearly. We know Paella Negra takes a long time to prepare, which is why Mom Violy had requested it to be cooked beforehand. She wanted it as her main meal, but because of the mix-up and feeling hungry, she took a piece of Carmina’s Turkey Club Sandwich and asked for the bacon on the side. I didn’t expect the turkey to be just one piece, and the bread was toasted so hard that it removed one layer of the sandwich. Since ...

No Contact is the Best Solution


I have notice for the past months when I have been staying at home you come across friends who you chat with everyday or you have friends who suddenly disappear without letting you know what has happened to them.

I use to question their absence and leave messages to my friends to let them know how they are doing but sometimes you come across they only seem to just read your message without replying back.

I came to the point of my life to do the reverse not contact them and let them miss you if they feel like chatting with you there must be a good reason why they are not chatting with you.

It can be for personal reason, work related and just a time to have space between among friends but no matter what some day that friend who is no longer in contact with you will call or message you when they feel it is the right time for them to reach out to you.

There is no reason to wait for their call or message for them because if they really want to reach out to you they will find away.

You can begin moving on with your life to preoccupy the time you use to chat with them and do other things than always looking at your phone.

I have been there so I know the feeling but I realized if they don’t want to chat with me that is alright because it is not like I can live without them you’re the one who controls your life and if they chose not to chat with you.

You can find something else other than waiting for them to reply.

Sometimes you need to find another outlook in life to give you a quick picker upper and see what else you can do with your life each day sometimes we wake up in a really good mood or we are sad just like anyone else.

In everyday we have different moods and it is unpredictable in the way we wake up each day.





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