No Drama

Have you ever encountered someone telling you they don’t want to hear any drama from you?

I came across from a lot of friends who tell me right off in our conversation that they don’t want to hear any drama sometimes you wonder what will our conversation be because in life there are stories to share but how can you identify what is drama to them.

Why does it matter if you have drama in your life is it really that bad?

When I come across from a person and they ask me how are you how do you explain yourself to them because you are stuck and quiet someone you really are not because you are holding back letting them know the story of your life.

Sometimes when someone holds off from letting you express yourself you really don’t know how to communicate with the person who tells you no drama how do you cope with that type of friend.

We have some friends who would love to hear all the drama you have going on but later they say it is their choice and you begin to question do we just keep it to ourselves.

Based on my experience there are some men who don’t like to hear drama because they don’t want to get stress hearing it from you they only want to know about who you are and not hear about anyone else in your life as well no commitment is what they fear to hear.

Those type of men are the kind to respect the life they live they are carefree but when drama comes into their life they will push you away because it is not the kind of life they want to live.

If, you are drama queen you won’t be getting along with these kinds of men you either have to make some choices to move on and find someone the same level as you or you need to change for him to be no drama.

We also come across girlfriends who are the same way they don’t want to hear any drama from you they don’t want to participate on other people lives especially if it has no concern to them.

They too don’t want to be involved but want to hear how you are but just simple conversation that becomes so dry and boring.

My solution is just give your friends space because I am sure they have stuff going on with their lives one part in our life we end up hibernating just like what the bears do stay in their cave and hide away from people around us but it is only temporary until their life is back in order.